Wednesday, December 07, 2005

Why does this happen...?

I think it's just me, whenever I decide to do something, somebody always manages to tell me to do that exact same thing or make a criticism that I don't do that particular thing or just a comment maybe. The result is I absolutely don't want to do that thing. Because then if I do it, those people will think I did it because of whatever they said. This puts me into procrastination. And once I start doing something easy it's friggin hard to give up into doing something worthy.And the main problem is I'm not being proactive.

If I continue with my plan anyway, people will think that their yap worked and redouble their chattering. I can't stand it when people make me do things, it's worse when they think they did.

Oh well, I guess I need to learn to ignore people when I can't tolerate them.

6 drops:

Layfield said...

I'm trying...

sinusoidally said...

You have to learn to become so comfortable with youself that you do not care about anything but your life. It is hard, because sometimes I can't do it too. But whenever in doubt I think who is that I am doing a particular task for? If the answer is me...I don't care what others think. I just do it!

Kaala Kavva said...

sorry for being so blunt
Because then if I do it, those people will think I did it because of whatever they said.

thats the ego speaking!

its just fine.... and good you're tryin on it!
its a problem inherent in all!!!
(not excluding me ofcrs)
dont worry.. just keep workin

(now dont stop workin on it coz i told u to! i know you must'v decided)

LITTLE ON THE EDGE said...

well same here....but i guess im worse than u..atleast u have ur own opinions about the thing ur thinking about doing..or maybe not doing..me on the other hand have always ended up listening to wat other ppl say...then hav regretted in letting others learn my life..pathetic isnt it

Layfield said...

@Little
Wow, I don't even remember writing all this. But I haven't changed much. :D

LITTLE ON THE EDGE said...

hehehe...im new...so wanted to read ur old posts