Monday, May 08, 2006

Fake smilers

I took this test just now. It's a test to see if you can identify fake smiles. I got 15 out of 20 correct, which, is very good. I do consider myself good at body language. Not that I've taken any course or read any books, except random articles in magazines. I can usually tell when something fishy is going on. Not always but much better than anyone else I know can.

People put on fake smiles all the time. I don't like it atl all. I'd prefer much more if the person was honest and not smile at all. Atleast I'll know  for sure if something I did was ridiculous. I get fake smiles all the time. And I throw them back too. Especially with teachers. Much less often with friends. Sometime, it's okay to chuck a fake smile/laugh. For example, if a teacher is desperately trying to liven up the mood in a class. Or if a friend is trying to be funny by narrating a dumb boring incident and you find yourself sitting there for hours, then, laugh! -- to satisfy the empty ego of your friend. But otherwise I'd prefer it if others were honest to me. Ofcourse I have no idea how others would want me to do.

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18 drops:

Neha Sinha said...

17/20 my score. yipppeeeeeee :D

hmm..even i don like fake smiles...but uses it quite often.:((
i guess most people do..in fact all.

Layfield said...

Ay-yah! Tough luck for poor Darcy. He can't even get away with fake smiles now. :O You've got him in one big fix.

Abhishek Upadhyay said...

Arre sometimes karna padta hai yaar.
Whenever my boss cracks any pakau joke....whole office laughs like anything....as though jokes of laughter challenge are in no match for his ones.Obviously the laugh is fake and unnecessarily extended.
Same goes with stupid smiling for prospective clients.
Karna Padta hai....rozi roti ka prashna hai.

Neha Sinha said...

hahahaha

//Tough luck for poor Darcy.

not darcy yaar..jack. jack dorson now.. :P

tanvi said...

well heard of the necessary evil
At times can't be helped but the intention matters
I got 12 out of twenty so I think I have been duped a lot :(
Yet I am smiling a genuine smile now :)

BD said...

15 on 20....well some of the smiles were really good....but that software wouldnt allow me to play it twice...Ah.

Layfield said...

@abhishek
They do the same thing for the physics lecturer in my college(school, actually). Sometime, it's absolutely necessary, yes.

@priya
Namaste

@Ney-ha!
Jack dorkson?! First you betray poor Darcy, then you elope with some dork? That's very bad of you. Hmph.
Mrs. Neigh-ha Dorkson. I can see it now.

@tanvi
We all have been duped sometime or the other. And yes, keep smiling :) I love it.

Whoa, a lot of us have got 15. Wonder how the other men did...they tend to suck at this stuff.

Rose said...

Hey...

I scored a 17.. Not bad, huh?

:) (thats indeed a genuine smile.. hehe..)

..Me

G said...

Me score was 15 aswell..

Vishal 'Tommy' Thomas said...

16 here.. hehe not bad i say..

Layfield said...

Oh great. I'm as good as I thought I was.

Ankit said...

wats wrong in giving fake smile if the person in front of u feels better.
I give fake smiles a lot ..even on crapy jokes ....

Layfield said...

@pam
Grrr

@ankit
As long as they don't know it's a fake smile, it's okay.

Advitiya said...

Hi,
Sorry to enroach on your space but I wanted to reply to the comment you left on Tanvi's post on feminism.

"Here's a kicker. Women like to be controlled. Not openly, but subtly. They like it when men take the lead. Women follow the leaders. It's in their blood."

I heartily disagree with your claim that it's in their blood. If you tame a tiger and feed it and not let it hunt and one day leave it in the wild expecting it to hunt, it'll not be able to.

Similarly, women since birth are told to follow rather than to lead. Those who 'dare' to do not survive as even the most liberal feminists still live in the dominated male society.

Agreed, some don't want to lead but those who do are not given a chance for the men believe it to be a threat.

Advitiya said...

Oh Btw.. my score was 13/20 :D

Layfield said...

@pam
Now, where did you learn that?

@adi
Okay, Now I don't know what to think...

Neha Sinha said...

ney-ha!!!
neigh-ha!!!!!!!!

whats this..you've broken up my sweet name. :(( :P

//Jack dorkson?! First you betray poor Darcy, then you elope with some dork? That's very bad of you. Hmph.
Mrs. Neigh-ha Dorkson. I can see it now.


Hey! want can you see :O :O :O...I am absolutely innocent..:D

Layfield said...

Innocent? *rolls eyes*